Are you up in the middle of the night, heartbroken, scared and worried? Maybe you've just discovered that your spouse has been having an affair and are thinking about how to tell them that you know. Maybe you've just had another bad fight and are worried that you'll never get back to a good place. Or perhaps you're afraid that the passion and connection that used to be there is just gone and you're scared it may never come back.


You've probably tried many things to make it better. Maybe you've confided in a close friend or a family member for advice, but the advice didn't really help. Maybe you've bought a few self-help books or watched some YouTube videos and have tried the strategies suggested, but your marriage isn't getting any better. You've probably read tons of articles online and diligently tried to do what they suggested, but find nothing is working.


It's not your fault! Relationships are complicated and often, we can't really see the problem clearly. You are emotionally involved in the situation and when you are, you can't see it objectively or logically. This doesn't mean anything is wrong with you, it just means that your vision is clouded by your feelings. You need help seeing the problem differently. Your marriage can get much better, but you need tested, proven advice that will really work, not a bunch of untested theories and guesses from well-meaning (but often misguided) relationship "gurus".


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Surviving The First 24 Hours After Infidelity Discovered

June 15, 2015

I recently had the opportunity to sit down with a dear friend and ask her about a very painful subject - her husband's affair.It's been many years now and I just recently felt I could ask her to revisit that painful memory. I explained that I wanted to write something for you, something to help you get through the first 24 hours after an affair had been discovered. She graciously agreed to help. I asked her to specifically recall the moment she saw the pictures and knew her husband was cheating. How did she feel? What did she do? What advice would she give someone else in that spot? You can read her insightful and controversial recommendations here.  Want to...

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My Spouse Just Found Out I Cheated. What Should I Do Now?

March 30, 2015

If your spouse just found out about your affair, I imagine your world has turned upside down. You're probably feeling very scared and confused. You might also feel incredible anguish and shame, especially when you see the look of pain on your spouse's face. You can tell what a huge impact your affair has had, that dark days are ahead. Maybe you're now wondering if it's even possible to save your marriage... I understand how upset you are. This is indeed an incredibly tough spot to be in. I hear from someone everyday who is in the same spot you are: they've been leading a double life for a long time or they made a serious mistake just one time...

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I Just Found Out My Spouse Cheated On Me. Now What?

March 30, 2015

If you've just discovered that your spouse is cheating on you, I am so sorry. This is such a shocking realization. You probably feel like you're living in a nightmare. Everyday I get a message from someone who's in the same spot as you: they're shocked, devastated, betrayed, horrified, blind-sided, and profoundly hurt. They tell me, "This wasn't supposed to happen to me!" and "This is the most painful experience ever!" I know it is, hang in there, you can get through this and I'm going to help you figure out exactly what to do. First, know that your feelings are so understandable and so normal. You are not going crazy, you are not losing your mind. You are just...

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