Eric writes, "Dr. K, should we stay together for our kids? I've been married for 14 years and honestly, the last 5 have been miserable. We have two kids that I adore and they're the reason I have been trying to make it work, but I just can't do it anymore..."

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Alyshia asks, "Hi Dr. K, my question is about sex drive... I just don't have one anymore!  I just don't really have any desire to be intimate with my husband (or anyone). Life is busy, I have so much going on, sex feels like a chore. I know it's important for my marriage. What can I do to get myself in the mood?"