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What If She Doesn't Care About Rebuilding Trust After Her Affair?

February 04, 2017

"I really don't know what to do, Dr. K. My wife has no interest in doing any of the things you recommend for building trust after an affair. I learned about her 2 year affair with a friend from High School last Thanksgiving. Since I found out, she's seen him at least once, talked to him a few times, got her own cell phone and refuses to let me see her emails, Facebook, etc. If she is not willing to do anything to make it better, what can I do?" - Jeff, California. Hi Jeff. Ugghhh... I am really sorry to hear this. It puts you in a terrible spot! Since it's been a few months since you found out...

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What If I Am The Only One Who Wants To Save Our Marriage?

October 17, 2016

"Dr. Kathy, I am really scared. I think my marriage might be over and that I am the only one willing to do anything. What can I do to make it better?" - Dominica, New York. Hi Dominica. I am so sorry to hear this. I am sure you are scared and I can understand why, but hang in there... I bet there's a lot we can do to make things better.Let me give you some hope and share a secret with you... even if your spouse is angry and tells you they're done, they might not actually be done. Many times, people are willing to give you 1 more chance, they just won't tell you you have 1 more...

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Can We Get Over An Affair? How Do We Start To Heal?

October 17, 2016

"Can we get over an affair? How do we start to heal?" - Soraya, Australia. Hi Soraya. That's a very big and important question... thanks for being brave enough to ask it. First things first, I want you to know that YOU CAN HEAL from this. Affairs are really common, much more than we know or think. Many people stay with their spouse after an affair and they almost never talk about it. So please know that you're not alone in this situation... and as painful as it is now, it can and will get better. I have written a lot about this very topic on the blog, so let me point you to a few articles that will help...

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