Alyshia asks, "Hi Dr. K, my question is about sex drive... I just don't have one anymore!  I just don't really have any desire to be intimate with my husband (or anyone). Life is busy, I have so much going on, sex feels like a chore. I know it's important for my marriage. What can I do to get myself in the mood?"

Jason writes in, "Hey Dr. Kathy, I hope you can help me with my problem. The thing is, I am not in love with my wife anymore. I am not even sure I like her any more. We have 3 kids, so I don't just want to give up, but I am close. Is there anything I can do? Is it possible to fall back in love with someone?"

Today is my 20th wedding anniversary and to celebrate this milestone, I thought I'd share the 20 things we do to keep our marriage happy and healthy! 1. Talk nicely to each other, especially when you're mad. 2. Really be a partner, jump in there and help, don't wait to be asked. 3. Make time for each other, every day and every week. 4. Support each other's passions.