"It's impossible to say how much better my life is because of our time with Dr. Kathy. Without her, we wouldn't have made it and my family would be broken in two. She helped us learn how to talk to each other, how to really listen, and most importantly, how to get to the bottom of our problems. If you need to get over an affair, call Dr. K today."
CS, Laguna Beach
Dr. Kathy's mission is "to help as many couples as possible save their relationships, prevent divorce, and keep their families together." Dr. Kathy wants to be a love champion in a world where it sometimes feel like love is lost.
Dr. Kathy Nickerson is a board certified clinical psychologist and nationally recognized expert in the fields of marriage therapy and couples counseling. Over the past 15 years, she has presented expert marriage advice at more than 150 conferences, while authoring more than 75 professional articles and books on relationship counseling. Aside from being highly qualified on paper, Dr. Kathy combines her qualifications with a gentle bedside manner and true devotion to her craft. Dr. Kathy is kind, compassionate, relatable and personally invested in championing love for her clients and the community at large.
Born and raised in Orange County, California, Dr. Kathy holds a doctorate and master's degree in clinical psychology from Capella University. She completed her undergraduate degree in Chemistry at the University of California in Irvine. Through her early work in teaching and clinical psychology with the Orange County Health Care Agency, she discovered the importance of healthy relationships. Kathy found that strong marriages contributed greatly to the mental and physical health of her clients. From that point on, Dr. Kathy dedicated her career exclusively to helping couples strengthen and repair their relationships.
After helping thousands of couples improve communication, heal from affairs, and increase intimacy, Dr. Kathy felt a shift occurring in her thinking that led her to explore offering online relationship advice and programs. “I realized that any relationship - no matter what state it's in - can dramatically improve with the right tools, information, and strategies." She discovered that instead of teaching these things to one couple at a time, she can offer what she's learned from eighteen years of marriage, twelve years of college, fifteen years of clinical practice, and thousands of hours of research and training to ALL couples.
When she’s away from the office, Dr. Kathy delights in being a wife, sister, auntie and daughter. She and her husband enjoy traveling together, digging for fossils, and volunteering with Southern California Bulldog Rescue. Kathy loves to read, work in her garden, experiment in the kitchen, and make handmade gifts for friends. When she wants to relax, Kathy curls up on the couch with her dogs and a great glass of wine to watch one of her favorite shows: The Blacklist, How To Get Away with Murder, & The Profit.
Tom, Orange County
MCH, Orange County
MO, Newport Beach, Former Client
CS, Laguna Beach
LM, Dana Point
"Thank you again for all you do & for being so great to us - but most of all for who you are - a force of nature who will go where angels fear to tread. I wonder if you have any idea how many tragic endings you've averted for couples on the edge. What a truly noble way to have spent your time and your life - what else could you have done that would have been anywhere near as important?"
HW, San Clemente
"Thank you. You are a godsend. Yesterday was a huge breakthrough for us. It is you that is impressive. You obviously care deeply about your clients & helping them heal their relationships. I completely trust you already or I wouldn't have been able to express myself deeply. I could never do what you do - go to work in a combat zone every day and help people navigate these troubling issues. I admire your talent, training and compassion so much."
LM, Laguna Beach, Former Client
"I cannot speak highly enough about Dr. Nickerson; I truly feel blessed to have had counseling with her. She has a very warm and caring personality and from our initial session made me feel comfortable sharing my concerns with her. Her approach, while direct, is that of a very sympathtic person. She was quickly able to help me identify areas that were adversely affecting me and gave me tools to jump-start the healing process. I directly attribute her kind manner and caring attitude to helping me achieve my goals."
JB, Aliso Viejo
"I wish you could get in my head and heart. You are a gifted, insightful therapist. I am a better person today because of the influence you have in my life. I mean that. Thank you."
CW, Laguna Niguel
"If you are looking for someone to understand you, provide empathy and support, but also needing someone to be honest and able to offer solutions to your situation, Dr. Nickerson is this person. She is warm and engaging and able to be candid about sensitive issues. I have known her for the past 5 years and she is professional and ethical and being a counselor myself would not hesitate to refer clients, friends or family members to her. She is wonderful!" -SM, San Juan Capistrano, Former Client
"I always thought that people who were in therapy were in it for years and years. After speaking with Dr. Nickerson I knew that wouldn't happen because I immediately felt better. She understood my issues right off the bat and explained some techniques I could experiment with when I got home after my first visit. All in all, I spent six months in therapy with Dr. Nickerson and the experience was invaluable. It's great to know that if I need to go back, I can. She's there to help." -CS, Irvine, Former Client
"I hesitated entering therapy. I saw it as resigning myself to the fact that I had lost control of my life. It was upon my wife's insistance that I saw Dr. Nickerson, and it was one of the best decisions I've made. I was tremendously relieved when Dr. Nickerson told me, "We're going to fix this, you just need some new tools so you can change your response." That in itself started our relationship off on the right foot. She made me feel like I'm the same as anyone else, and everyone needs help once in a while. By helping me see that there was nothing "wrong" with me, Dr. Nickerson reinforced habits in me that were already "right" and re-structured the way I communicated." -KS, Newport Beach, Former Client
"Dr. Kathy truly listens and feels what I'm feeling. I have tried therapy before, and have never felt like they truly got to know me or cared about my problems. From the moment we met, I could sense that Dr. Kathy genuinely wanted me to feel better, not just vent without any progress in sight. I think that it's her realness that kept me working on myself - not some talking head with a clipboard. You want to trust the person you're telling certain things to, and she always made me feel comfortable." -RW, Huntington Beach, Former Client
Dr. Bahareh Khavarian, MD
Dr. Gloria Sklansky, PhD
"I have known Dr. Kathleen Nickerson for about ten years. What makes her a truly valuable psychologist is that she combines her impeccable psychological skills with an intuition that allows her to relate to and empathize with her patients, regardless of age or problem. I honestly feel that Dr. Nickerson would be as comfortable in dealing with a depressed older individual as with a troubled adolescent."
Dr. Regina Velarde, MD
"She can relate to patients of all ages and is a caring compassionate individual. I would not hesitate to refer any of my patients to her."
Dr. Piotr Biegun, MD
"As a person, Kathy is one of the most compassionate, competent, knowledgeable, empathetic, and motivated individuals I know. Her broad experience and skills will provide you with an accomplished therapist."
Dr. Jerry Weichman, PhD
"During the past two years, I have grown to know Dr. Nickerson on both a personal and professional level. She is an excellent psychologist with a calm and reassuring demeanor. She is respected by her peers and patients and I feel she's an excellent role model, as well as a true asset to all she works with."
Dr. Bahareh Khavarian, MD