Tell us about Dr. K ...
"If your best friend was a marriage counselor, she'd be Dr. Kathy!" - Bhavin S, London
"It's impossible to say how much better my life is because of our time with Dr. Kathy. Without her, we wouldn't have made it and my family would be broken in two. She helped us learn how to talk to each other, how to really listen, and most importantly, how to get to the bottom of our problems. If you need to get over an affair, call Dr. K today." - Chris S, Laguna Beach
"She is an excellent psychologist with a calm and reassuring demeanor. She is respected by both peers and patients. Kathy is an excellent role model, as well as a true asset to all she works with. You'll be in excellent hands with Dr. Kathy." - Dr. Bahareh Khavarian, MD
When you have been hurt by infidelity, the path forward can feel overwhelming. You do not need generic advice; you need specialized, expert guidance from someone who has walked hundreds of couples over "affair mountain".
Hi there. I'm Dr. Kathy Nickerson, a licensed clinical psychologist (PSY 20446) and affair recovery expert. For more than 20 years, I have focused exclusively on helping couples and individuals heal after affairs and betrayal. I have published award-winning books, led one of the largest research studies on infidelity, and taught millions of people through social media, articles, support groups, and masterclasses.
It would be a privilege to help you navigate this painful and complicated chapter in your life. My goal in every consultation is to help you feel supported, understood, and clear about your next steps. When everything feels chaotic and uncertain, having a thoughtful plan can bring tremendous relief. Together, we’ll create that plan - one that offers clarity, direction, and practical strategies to help you feel comfortable and confident as you move toward healing.
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What is a Consultation?
A consultation is a focused, 55-minute private session where we dig into your situation and map out your next steps. Together, we will:
- Identify the issues that are keeping you stuck
- Create a practical plan to move forward
- Discuss how to manage triggers, rebuild trust, and communicate effectively
- Determine which skills to practice between sessions
I recommend a consultation every 1-2 months. This gives you space to work on strategies while keeping me available to guide you at critical points in your recovery.
If you would like to speak to someone right away for personal support, I encourage you to consider my associate, Coach Courtney. Should you like assistance with a parenting issue, please consider Angelika Broederlow at the Seamless Blend. You can also see my full list of colleague referrals here.
Why Consult Instead of Weekly Therapy?
After my first book was published, hundreds of couples reached out, and I suddenly had a six-year waiting list. I knew I had to choose between working intensively with a small number of couples each year or shifting to a model that allowed me to support many more people.
To help as many couples as possible, I transitioned from offering weekly therapy to a coaching and consultation model. This allows me to meet with couples every one to two months to provide clear direction, specialized guidance, and thoughtful refinements, while another therapist can provide the weekly support essential for day-to-day healing.
This approach helps you stay on track and ensures you receive both high-level guidance and consistent care. Between consultations, you can also draw on my masterclasses, support groups, and other resources for additional support. And if you prefer more frequent sessions, I can connect you with trusted colleagues who provide that. My goal is to help you find the combination of support that best serves your healing.
Who Is This For?
- Individuals coping with betrayal trauma who want expert direction
- Couples trying to rebuild after an affair who want a clear roadmap
- People who prefer targeted guidance and practice between sessions
What to Expect
- Length: 55 minutes
- Fee: $350 per session
- Format: Virtual via Zoom, FaceTime, or Phone
- Frequency: Every 1-2 months
- Insurance: Sessions are prepaid at the time of scheduling, your insurance may reimburse you
Ready to Begin?
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Please note that I do not offer ongoing weekly therapy. If you prefer traditional therapy, please reach out to one of my trusted colleagues here: Colleague List