Videos

HOW TO IMPROVE YOUR MARRIAGE

A great place to start, this video walks you through some simple, easy things you can do right now to start transforming your marriage.

 

 

WELCOME, I'M GLAD YOU'RE HERE

Need a little hope? I've got some for you! In this video, I talk about how much better things can be. Let's get started...

 

 

HOW TO FIGHT FAIR

Watch this video to learn the rules for fighting fairly and discover what you should do (and not do!) for great communication.

 

 

Q&A WITH DR K - MY HUSBAND HAD AN AFFAIR

Watch this video to hear my advice for Joan, who just discovered that her husband had an affair and is wondering what to do now.

 

 

WHAT IF WE'RE STUCK IN A SEXLESS, LOVELESS MARRIAGE

Want to bring love and sex back to your marriage and stop feeling like roommates? Start here and learn how to reconnect.

 

 

3 SIMPLE STEPS TO START STRENGTHENING YOUR MARRIAGE

If your relationship is strained right now, it's hard to know what to do to start making it better. It seems like there are so many things to do, it's really tricky to know where to start. So start here! These 3 steps will give your relationship an immediate boost.

 

 

HOW TO STOP CONSTANT FIGHTING

Have you just had another bad fight and find yourself thinking: My husband doesn't listen to me! If every conversation turns into a fight, if your spouse tells you that you're crazy and your feelings are ridiculous, if your partner shuts down or ignores you when you try to talk, you're not alone and your marriage is being hurt by bad communication habits. Let's talk about how to change those habits now...

 

 

DID YOUR SPOUSE CHEAT ON YOU?

If you've just discovered that your spouse is cheating on you, I am so sorry. This is such a shocking realization. You probably feel like you're living in a nightmare. Everyday I get a message from someone who's in the same spot as you: they're shocked, devastated, betrayed, horrified, blind-sided, and profoundly hurt. You can heal from this, watch this video to get started...

 

 

Q&A WITH DR K - WHAT IF YOUR SPOUSE DOESN'T WANT COUNSELING?

If your spouse or partner is on the fence about going to counseling - or if they downright refuse to go - here's what you can do and say to help them feel more comfortable.

 

 

THE 7 DEADLY RELATIONSHIP SINS

Discover the seven things we all do in our relationships that cause our partners to shut down and turn off. Learn what these seven deadly sins are, how to avoid them, and what you can do instead. Your relationship will be significantly better by swapping out the "poison" behaviors for their healthy alternatives.

 

 

HAS YOUR AFFAIR JUST BEEN DISCOVERED?

If your spouse just found out about your affair, I imagine your world has turned upside down. Hang in there. You are uniquely qualified to heal your spouse from this trauma. You know your spouse better than anyone else, you are closer to them than anyone else, and your decision to stand by them through this fight and make things better will mean more than anything else. Helping your spouse through their excruciating hurt will heal you too. All the guilt and shame you feel will be replaced by gratitude and pride as you transition from betrayer to healer. It's hard work, but so worth it. Let me show you what to do now...

 

 

Q&A WITH DR K - I FEEL LIKE WE'RE JUST ROOMMATES, SHOULD WE GET A DIVORCE OR SEPARATE?

Neither! There's so much we can do to make your marriage so much better. Even if you feel lonely and disconnected now, we can start to transform your relationship into the one you always wanted. Let's get started now...

 

 

MY SURPRISING STORY - WHY I BECAME A MARRIAGE EXPERT

I became a marriage counselor in a surprising way... I fell in love! And because of this, my life radically changed. I am so grateful for the relationship I have been blessed with and it is what makes me able to take such amazing care of you.