Throughout the year, many people write in with questions about how to improve their marriage. I imagine you have many of the same questions and so I wanted to share my answers with you...

What I really want you to know is that YOUR MARRIAGE CAN GET BETTER AND BETTER. If things are good now, wonderful! It's a great time to do some fine tuning so that you can always be at the top of your game.

If things are not so fine, that's ok. There's so much that you can do to make it better and I think these questions will help you figure out where to start.

Please know this: The people who win at the marriage game are the people who refuse to give up and when the chips are down, they do something to change the game.

I hope one of these Q & A's will be a game-changer for you....

Answers To Your Top 10 Questions

Question 1 from Sonia in Alaska... How can we communicate better so that we never lose the spark?

Question 2 from Kelly in Maryland... How do I fit in a sex life with my husband when I am exhausted all the time from work, kids, and the hustle and bustle of life?

Question 3 from Kathyrn in Utah... My husband never lets me vent, he immediately goes into fix-it mode. How do I tell him I just want him to listen to me?

Question 4 from Mike in Colorado... My wife and I are very different people. We have different interests and different ways of looking at the world. Is this a bad sign for our marriage?

Question 5 from Carol in California... My husband and I always have the same argument that seems to keep resurfacing and never gets resolved. What should we do to fix it?

Question 6 from Sandra in the UK... How do we prioritize each other when we're both so busy?

Question 7 from Michele in Arizona... What can I do to make my husband feel really loved? Not like he's just some repair guy living at the house, but really loved.

Question 8 from David in Washington... My partner and I have different expectations about our relationship and we both tend to make assumptions about how things should be. What should I do?

Question 9 from Soraya in Australia... Can we get over an affair? How do we start to heal?

Question 10 from Dominica in New York... Dr. Kathy, I am really scared. I think my marriage might be over and that I am the only one willing to do anything. What can I do to make it better?